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Post by LindavG on Aug 20, 2023 14:49:09 GMT
I think it was TMZ who initially reported that it was a repressed/recovered memory case. I think they were confused because this whole "I knew we had sex but I only realized it now that it was wrong/abuse" crap is so absurd, especially considering the fact that Wade testified at a trial that was all about how it's wrong/abuse. In his deposition he was specifically asked if he alleges repressed memories and he said no, he claims his memories have "evolved". So if Loftus is not dealing only with repressed/recovered memories, but all kind of "memory" issues (although I think Robson/Safechuck are simply liars and it has nothing to do with their memories). But Loftus may point out how people might even develop "memories" for themselves of things that never happened etc. So even when he was a fully grown man in 2005, he didn't realise it was wrong for an adult to have sex with a little kid? Even as he was testifying in a court case about exactly this situation? Even as he was grilled about his experiences with Michael by the prosecution? If he 'never forgot' what happened between Michael and him, what was his motivation to lie in court then? It just doesn't make any sense.
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Post by pg13 on Aug 20, 2023 14:53:29 GMT
I think it was TMZ who initially reported that it was a repressed/recovered memory case. I think they were confused because this whole "I knew we had sex but I only realized it now that it was wrong/abuse" crap is so absurd, especially considering the fact that Wade testified at a trial that was all about how it's wrong/abuse. In his deposition he was specifically asked if he alleges repressed memories and he said no, he claims his memories have "evolved". So if Loftus is not dealing only with repressed/recovered memories, but all kind of "memory" issues, she might be relevant - re. "evolving memories" to which "details get added to" in the hindsight (although I think Robson/Safechuck are simply liars and it has nothing to do with their memories). But Loftus may point out how people might even develop "memories" for themselves of things that never happened if they want to convince themselves of something etc. Yes, that is a big part of Loftus' work - how people will fabricate a memory to support something. Sometimes with the help of a therapist and other times it can be tough circumstances in life. Where I come from, people WILL fabricate memories of abuse by the State and army to further their political ideology. Robson and Safechuck are doing the same thing with money as their ideology instead. Their financial history will be relevant to Loftus.
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Post by pg13 on Aug 20, 2023 14:57:45 GMT
I think it was TMZ who initially reported that it was a repressed/recovered memory case. I think they were confused because this whole "I knew we had sex but I only realized it now that it was wrong/abuse" crap is so absurd, especially considering the fact that Wade testified at a trial that was all about how it's wrong/abuse. In his deposition he was specifically asked if he alleges repressed memories and he said no, he claims his memories have "evolved". So if Loftus is not dealing only with repressed/recovered memories, but all kind of "memory" issues, she might be relevant - re. "evolving memories" to which "details get added to" in the hindsight (although I think Robson/Safechuck are simply liars and it has nothing to do with their memories). But Loftus may point out how people might even develop "memories" for themselves of things that never happened if they want to convince themselves of something etc. At the time of this deposition, was Gradstein Wade's lawyer? Or Finaldi? This makes a difference as the repressed memories thing is said to have come from Gradstein. May well explain being fired for Finaldi, a nasty piece of work apparently.
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Post by respect77 on Aug 20, 2023 15:18:07 GMT
He has actually made different (IMO often contradictory) claims to what was his motivation to lie. One was that he was scared to lose his career if he starts accusing MJ and that he didn't think what happened was wrong. I think what he is trying to claim here that he enjoyed the abuse so he didn't think it was wrong or that it affected him. That it was clear to him that society thought it was wrong and MJ might go to jail for it, but he personally didn't think at the time that it was wrong. He only realized it affected and harmed him in 2012 when he first started to make his allegations and sue the Estate/companies. Conveniently. The problem with this "I didn't know such acts were wrong until 2012" BS that he is on the record both in 1993 and 2005 saying things that very much tells us he, of course, knew that sexual abuse was wrong. In his 1993 TV interview the then 10 year old Wade calls these acts that MJ was accused of "sick". In 2003, right after the Arvizo case broke, he was asked about it by an Australian newspaper and this is what he said: "“I never had that experience and I hope that it never happened to anybody else”. Why would he say "I hope that it never happened to anyone else" if he didn't know such acts were wrong?
There was also a claim somewhere that he didn't tell because he was scared to go to jail for it. But later admitted at his deposition that as an adult man in 2005 he didn't believe that victims of child abuse go to jail. I think he felt it was too absurd to hold on to that claim.
In LN he made the claim that he didn't testify against MJ because he felt sorry for MJ's kids, especially Paris, and didn't want their father to go to jail. (He never made this claim in his lawsuit/deposition.)
There's also a claim that both in 1993 and in 2005 as an adult MJ coached him to not testify against him. This coaching story is actually very weird, so I went into this a bit on my website. Let me quote:
On his blog he once claimed he didn't tell because of shame and because he feared that people would think he was gay.
But he must have forgot this version at his deposition because he straight up contradicted it and said the shame of being gay didn't play a part... In fact, in his 2016 deposition once again he gives some messy version of feeling "shame" - not for abuse but generally in social situations. I guess he realized that the "feeling shame for sexual abuse" and the "not knowing I was abused and I was okay with it versions" are actually contradictory.
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Post by respect77 on Aug 20, 2023 15:19:13 GMT
At the time of this deposition, was Gradstein Wade's lawyer? Or Finaldi? Finaldi.
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Post by pg13 on Aug 20, 2023 15:23:18 GMT
At the time of this deposition, was Gradstein Wade's lawyer? Or Finaldi? Finaldi. That makes sense. With Gradstein - repressed memories. With Finaldi - altered to "I didn't know it was abuse....thought it was ĺove" bollocks. Finaldi is very good at manipulation. Estate lawyers must be even sharper than him - can't afford to be anything else.
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Post by butterflies2 on Aug 20, 2023 18:09:14 GMT
I hope Thomas mesareau could defend him again
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Post by pg13 on Aug 20, 2023 18:10:37 GMT
I hope Thomas mesareau could defend him again He's there as a consultant now, I think, for legal matters.
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Post by kaeleah on Aug 20, 2023 19:01:35 GMT
The timing for this isn't great for me, as I already have anxiety issues...not a lawyer or anything, is there any chance this can end up not going to trial after all...? Their case is so extremely weak, and isn't there something called a statute of limitations...? Trying a dead man who's been dead for over a decade for something that allegedly happened decades ago just isn't fair on so many different levels.
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Post by butterflies2 on Aug 20, 2023 20:28:09 GMT
The timing for this isn't great for me, as I already have anxiety issues...not a lawyer or anything, is there any chance this can end up not going to trial after all...? Their case is so extremely weak, and isn't there something called a statute of limitations...? Trying a dead man who's been dead for over a decade for something that allegedly happened decades ago just isn't fair on so many different levels. I feel the same about timing cause I’m not well
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Post by NatureCriminal7896 on Aug 20, 2023 21:29:27 GMT
i notice this a few years ago. they always do this around Michael's passing or birthday.
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Post by elusivemoonwalker on Aug 20, 2023 21:38:12 GMT
I think it was TMZ who initially reported that it was a repressed/recovered memory case. I think they were confused because this whole "I knew we had sex but I only realized it now that it was wrong/abuse" crap is so absurd, especially considering the fact that Wade testified at a trial that was all about how it's wrong/abuse. In his deposition he was specifically asked if he alleges repressed memories and he said no, he claims his memories have "evolved". So if Loftus is not dealing only with repressed/recovered memories, but all kind of "memory" issues (although I think Robson/Safechuck are simply liars and it has nothing to do with their memories). But Loftus may point out how people might even develop "memories" for themselves of things that never happened etc. So even when he was a fully grown man in 2005, he didn't realise it was wrong for an adult to have sex with a little kid? Even as he was testifying in a court case about exactly this situation? Even as he was grilled about his experiences with Michael by the prosecution? If he 'never forgot' what happened between Michael and him, what was his motivation to lie in court then? It just doesn't make any sense. [ Its totally non sensical. The only way he could argue that was if he had learning difficulties of some kind and didnt realise what was inappropriate or illegal and what wasnt. Why did he think mj was on trial if he thought there was nothing wrong? Its laughable and the old saying only in america comes tto mind.
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Post by kaeleah on Aug 20, 2023 21:44:34 GMT
When I told my mom about this, she even said "Isn't his birthday in a few days...?". Somehow I doubt that's a coincidence...
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Post by amaya on Aug 20, 2023 22:43:18 GMT
When I told my mom about this, she even said "Isn't his birthday in a few days...?". Somehow I doubt that's a coincidence... Indeed... though I find it preferable that they did this now rather than on his birthday, or the day before, or the day after. I remember when Xscape came out and Safechuck's claim made the news literally the weekend before the album dropped. When the Place With No Name single came out, more news about Safechuck's claim also dropped around that same time. Then everything about that album stopped and we've not had another good, all-new material album since then. I really fucking hate how deliberate the timing of everything feels.
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Post by NatureCriminal7896 on Aug 21, 2023 3:41:15 GMT
glad to know some finally waking up.☕
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